Obviously, the top priority when you’re cheating on your wife is not getting caught cheating by said wife in the process. If you haven’t had much luck locally or are too hesitant to try it out, then it might be time to consider going outside your comfort zone. Most men who are successful at cheating enjoy dating women outside their hometown for a variety of reasons. You never know, it might just give you the extra boost of luck and confidence to have a great affair that your wife never finds out about.
If you’re working in your existing pool of connections, then chances are you’re working with her connections, too. This means you’re surrounded by landmines, and don’t know which ones are going to go off and tell your wife. A lot of women are highly offended by married men trying to hook up with them, so the key is to find a woman who doesn’t know the situation. Looking around outside your hometown will keep things fresh and easy, and you won’t have to worry about maneuvering around those contacts you two share. It might seem easier to go after a woman you know already, but trust me on this –you’ll have much better luck with a woman you haven’t met previously, that way she gets to have a fresh take on you. Not to mention you can exaggerate a bit with a new girl. Of course you’re a doctor, right?
You never know what you might find in a new city, but it’s guaranteed to be more interesting than the same women you see day in and day out. Go outside your town to give yourself a breath of clean air – there’s plenty of talent in other cities, too. Check out the bar scene, concerts, and whatever else interests you in the next city over. You’ll be sure to find a ton of gorgeous women who know nothing about you, which is great. It’s much easier to meet women further away from you, and it’s easy to keep her separate from your home life. Being with a local woman runs the risk of her running into you at random times, like when you’re out with your wife and don’t want to see any hookups. A girl from further away won’t be running into you and upsetting your old lady.
Once you’re done with a woman that lives in your town, if she doesn’t want it to be done then it isn’t going to be. She can follow you, tell your wife, and pretty much ruin your life. If she’s out of town, then chances are she never knew where you lived in the first place. You can boot her out of your life with no muss and no fuss. Delete her on Facebook, block her on your phone, and she’s gone. Your wife will have no idea, and you’ll be free to find another woman to have a fling with. It keeps things interesting, and it’s simple to get away with it as long as you take the proper precautions.