The best part about having an affair is the freedom that comes with it. You get to be choosy about looks and kinks, and you don’t have to worry about offending her too much. Of course you don’t want to send her running, but it’s not like with your wife where if you suggest the wrong thing you’re in the doghouse for weeks. Affairs are a time to let go of your inhibitions and try everything you’ve always dreamed of, and these three things that you wouldn’t get your wife to do are perfect for first time cheaters.
Aside from the generic vibrator that she probably already has, your wife probably won’t let you do any adventurous play. That’s okay, though, because your fling will let you do anything you want. Hop on over to your local sex shop and pick up a variety of toys to mess around with, because every woman likes something different. A good bet is to pick up something that’ll stimulate her clit while you’re busy with her, but there are a lot more to choose from. If you’re feeling really adventurous, try out some anal beads. They’re great for stimulating your woman during foreplay, and can be just the right amount of kinky to really set the mood. Buying a variety, though, gives you room to test them all and see what each woman likes.
Your wife would probably find it pretty distasteful, but roleplaying with a one-night stand can make your evening an adventure you’ll always remember. You can meet plenty of women online who are just dying to live out their fantasies with a man like you, or you can see where you can get at the bars. The most common fantasies are nurse/doctor, teacher/student, and daddy/daughter role-plays. These are varying levels of wrong and kinky, so find out what she’s into before you act. You can really step up your game by throwing in costumes to help you two keep more in character, or use toys to combine multiple taboos into one. This is perfect for a night with a new woman that you won’t be seeing again because it’s easier to not break character. After all, you have no idea what her actual personality is, and she doesn’t know yours.