To rope the kind of woman you want on the side, you have to look the part. You’re going to have to work extra hard to impress, because a woman who’s only interested in a fling is going to be judging you mostly on physical appearance. A good personality is always a plus, but it’s not essential. The same goes for the type of woman you’re probably looking for. In other words, you want a hot lady on the side, not just anybody that volunteers to be a friend with benefits. If you’re going to cheat, do it right. You can start by spiffing up your style. It’s a lot easier than you may think to give yourself a boost above other guys that will catch the eye of ladies. Here are some basic tips that you can use immediately. Just be careful you don’t overdo it on the “self improvements,” because then your wife will know something is up. Play it cool, and you’ll be ready to meet hot women.
Wallets and Other Things You Think She Doesn’t Notice
Women love accessories. It’s a common fact in pop culture that women love things like shoe and jewelry shopping. While it’s not true that every woman on the planet likes expensive earrings, in our experience, it’s definitely the majority of the time. It’s only logical that women are going to notice the same things about us. Let’s start with something everyone has – your wallet. You may not realize it, but you actually show your wallet to a lot of people, and especially in date settings. Whether you’re at the bar or a club, when you go to pay, she’s going to notice what you’re carrying. It says something about you, and you don’t want to veer too far in a particular direction. For example, if you’re toting around a wallet made from duct tape, she might think you’re going to take her on a date to the mall food court. If you pull out a money clip, she might just laugh at you. Like most style for men, you can’t go wrong by keeping it simple. Get yourself a wallet that’s made of a nice, neutral material, like leather, and comes in dark, neutral colors. It communicates that you’re not only good with money, but that you’re adult who’s also going to be good in bed.
When to Wear a Tie
The answer here is going to be almost never. If you’re dealing with a fling, there’s almost never going to be a reason to dress up. It means you’re trying too hard. The only time you want need to wear a tie is if you go to a high end club and it’s the dress code. Again, don’t get too fancy here. Pick a plain tie that doesn’t have a pattern. You can even go out a little bit more if you feel confident, and get a skinny tie or some other style that’s a little younger.
Just remember that you can apply these same principles to everything else in your personal appearance. Keep it simple and classy. Don’t go the ostentatious route or tote around things your grandfather would carry. On the other hand, don’t get too lazy, either.