Starting a new fling can be both fun and exciting. The thrill you get from seeing someone new and forbidden can certainly get your heart racing. However, starting a new fling can sometimes be tricky depending on what is going on with your life. Believe it or not, sometimes you may be better off by waiting to hookup with someone to prevent any unnecessary drama and heartache. While you can never be too sure, there are just some situations that you should avoid starting a new fling until things have settled down completely.
When She’s Pregnant
While you may want to start a new fling when your wife is pregnant, we recommend that you avoid doing so. It’s understandable that women can be downright unbearable when they’re pregnant and you may want someone to spend time with or to sleep with, but most of the time, it’s just not worth it.
When you start a fling while your woman is pregnant, you run the risk of her discovering that you’re cheating. This will lead to unnecessary stress for you, her, and your unborn child. Many complications can arise when a pregnant woman is overly stressed. The last thing you want is to feel guilty about something happening to her or the baby because she couldn’t handle the fact that you were cheating while her hormones and emotions are already going haywire. Do yourself a favor and avoid starting a fling while your wife is pregnant.
After the Death of a Loved One
Sometimes you may not even think about different things that your wife may be going through and how the things you do will affect her mental health. When you keep that into consideration, starting a new fling after your lady has just lost someone important in her life can be devastating to her. We know it may be tough for you, especially if she’s in mourning, but she is probably going to need you to help get her through any sadness and hard times she may be experiencing. When you cheat on her after she has lost a loved one, it may feel like the pain is doubled because she may feel like she has lost you, too.
While you should probably avoid starting a new fling after the death of your wife’s loved one, it doesn’t mean you can’t get your search started. You can definitely check out various dating profiles and leave yourself mental notes of what women you are attracted to. You just need to make sure that you are deleting your history, so that she doesn’t chance upon it and cause either of you a bunch of stress and grief.
No matter what situation is currently taken place, it’s always best to take some time out and start planning things before you start a new fling. Jumping into various hookups can lead to frustration and stress for those who are involved, as well as those who aren’t. Make sure you know what type of woman you want to fool around with and that your wife is happy at home before you start looking for someone new to hook up with.